Paradox of Acceptance

Acceptance can be complex and nuanced, often viewed as a positive virtue that promotes harmony and tolerance. However, Acceptance is not a freedom and discourages one from fighting. Let’s explore this idea further.

I had my first breakup in college. My friend broke my trust and lied to me. I was disheartened, and I couldn’t accept the fact that I was lied to and cheated for the entire remaining years of college. It hurt me deeply, and I wasn’t able to get it. Every day, I wondered if this could change somehow or if things could reverse. I often used to plan revenge in my head, but I could never exercise even .01% of it. However, I broke any ties with my friend and removed any dependency or communication despite being in the same college. I discussed this incident with friends and received the required support and love. I wanted to let the world know what happened to me was wrong. Liars and dishonest people should be reprimanded, according to me. That was too innocent and imprudent, of course. But I could not gather the courage to do so. I couldn’t reverse the situation, but I learned a lot from that experience and grew stronger & smarter about putting trust in anyone. It took me many years to accept that it had happened and was over now. At that time, I didn’t know that “Acceptance” would heal me. But does Acceptance heal you? Does it comfort you? I don’t think so. Acceptance will free you from pain and…